Tuesday 27 August 2019

A DEVOTED BEAUTY AND AN INSECURE GIANT: A LOOK AT THE BURNA BOY-STEFFLON DON RELATIONSHIP


We may wake up tomorrow or next to find a Burna boy and Stefflon Don joint instagram post denying the story that they have gone their separate ways and it won't suprise to see a lot of people rush into saying it was all a publicity stunt.But then before anyone does that,it is important they study the facts available to us.First,someone leaked that video of Burna and the monstrously hipped Gambian actress,Princess Shyngle.There was a reason and for the simple fact that Burna boy isn't already promising to get whoever did it or threatening to shoot up instablog9ja for publishing it,he is the prime suspect.
A Stefflon Don post on her insta story read "Old Old videos,Please let it rest.We good over here.Thanks.".But a careful look at the videos will show while Burna's look on the Face time call was his in the period he shot the YE video,the look at the arcade machines where he was just a couple of seats away from Princess Shyngle is his look as of today.
On the Face time call,Shyngle is heard asking of songs he made while they were together which implies they had split even before he hooked up with Steff and it could pretty much be argued that since he wasn't by Shyngle's side at the arcade spot,it could just be that they happened to be in the same place at the same time.But that also leads us back to the million dollar question-why was that video leaked?.
A careful look at the Burna-Steff relationship will reveal an unpleasant behavioural pattern on the part of the African Giant.An inferiority complex manifests in several ways.While some guys depict a low self-esteem in public others try to over-exert themselves as the dominant partner and yet others,bottle it all up to punish their bigger partners with it.Stefflon Don showed up to celebrate with Burna boy after his BET best international act accolade and the first words out of his mouth in public were 'Our wife,you can't be dressing like this oo'.A lot of ladies would end the relationship there and then for not telling them so in private.
When interviewed on beats1 radio by Oldman Ebro,Stefflon Don's first reaction to the Burna boy question was 'that is husby' and in sharp contrast,Burna boy told Charlamagne tha god on the break fast club show before the African Giant album dropped that 'he didn't want to talk about that' when asked about his relationship with Steff.Then also add the fact that Burna made a whole album without putting her on any of the tracks.Our African Giant may not be as emotionally and psychologically secure as we would like to think.
For Steff to overlook the stuff we have seen her do means she loves Burna boy a lot.The leaked video could very much be an over-pampered lover trying to make his girl jealous and then get back with her afterwards just as much as it could also be an egoistic and psychologically insecure lover being eager to tell the world 'i broke up with her and not the other way round' irrespective of the scum tag that comes with it.Time will unravel everything.

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